POST ABORTION DEPRESSION 1 of 7 Carl G. Oehling 8 May 2011
Every woman talks about post partum depression. But
nobody talks about Post Abortion Depression (PAD). There are
many articles by women and even books on the problem. The
women who write relate they are left to solve the issue on their
own. This article is a desire to help each and every woman with
this issue.
I am a father. Obviously I have children so I might have a
little personal experience. Our first birth resulted in my wife
having severe post partum depression. It lasted about five
months. At the second birth she knew we could handle the
problems of marriage and children. This goes along with the
study and logic I have found in order to write this article. We
were paying our mortgage, utilities, and eating enough
nutritious foods. We had a constructive future. The percent
of women in an ethnic group who have PPD are in lower
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socio-economic straits, have little family support, possibly
no spouse, and are already responsible for other children.
There have been some studies on the hormone changes.
But the responses to therapy have not proven successful. They
do not explain PPD of the husbands involved. True, husbands
have lesser and shorter problems, but they can and do have
PPD. They don’t have hormonal changes.
There is another issue called the baby blues. It is shorter
term and seems to be more related to the fact of the increased
work load, interrupted sleep patterns, colicky baby, change in
diet needs and house hold tasks. The organizational ability of
the woman and advice from friends solves most of the blues.
But I think the problem of Post Abortion Depression is
moral problem. My logic is based on my acceptance of the
Christian moral position of a righteous God and sinful humans.
I personally accept the Old and New Testament as the writing
of the same God and of equal authority.
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Everybody in the world lives in a country with a law against
murder, stopping a human life. God included it in His Ten
Commandments. Murder in the Bible includes more than just
stopping a life. We can kill a fly. We can kill a cow and eat the
meat. That is stopping a life. But the death of a human includes
the separation of a body and its soul per biblical information.
Well, what about self defense and capital punishment you
That is a proper question. The Old Testament (OT) records
two instances of a killing. Self defense is illustrated in the
story of an individual entering through a window at night. The
owner of the house is allowed to assume the intruder is entering
with malicious intent. In the defense of the home, if the intruder
dies, the home owner is not to be accused of a murder.
The second is in Ex. 21:22-25 and it is included in the
account of an abused pregnant woman. God seems to give
two principles we should live with in this account. One
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principle prescribes equal punishment for comparable crimes, a
‘soul for a soul, an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth”. But
secondly, the separation of the soul of one of the victims must
result in God also receiving the soul of the person who caused a
death. That would reinforce the command of Gen. 9:6 where God
commands the shedding of a man’s blood be followed by the
shedding of the killer’s blood. Other places indicate there must
also be a public court case to prove guilt for such human action.
So now that we indicated an authorized separation of a body
from its soul, killing, there must be an unauthorized instance,
murder. The explanation is more involved and starts at the
creation.
The Bible takes the existence of Jehovah as a given. Then at
creation He gives Adam a “living soul” which makes him special
and different from the other living creatures. An important concept
is the adjective and the noun. The soul is a real thing. God gives a
few rules to the new couple. The critical one being, “rebel and I
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will take back my “living soul” (My paraphrase). They rebelled
and God kept His promise, continuing death to each of us. It is His
promise so God doesn’t allow sinful humans to usurp His deity or
when He decides to carry out His promise. He calls that a murder,
a short word for an ‘unauthorized separation of a body and its
soul’. The soul of each individual was given at the same time as
the sperm joined with the egg according to Psalm 51. It is a new,
special creature, a human being.
Now we are getting into the cause of PAD. Most people
believe there is a god. I didn’t capitalize the word because many
have a vague definition with no specific god in mind. However, the
Bible claims He has a name, Jehovah, and has written a book they
are to read, understand, and follow. That book claims everybody
has inner knowledge of the God mentioned in it.
Reading between the lines of articles written by women with
PAD, a Christian has a perspective of befuddled individuals
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hunting for salvation from God’s justice. They sense they have
murdered their own flesh and blood. They are afraid of the coming
Judgment and the Hell God has promised. It is a lifelong turmoil.
Unfortunately, I know of no Christian Church or its adherents
who are publicly advertising they know the solution for PAD.
They are proving a poignant and common complaint of these
suffering women who are left to suffer alone in silence.
Personally I am available to help. I will explain in as simple
terms as I know of the fall into sin. The picture of the unblemished
lamb which shed its blood to pay for sin was written in the OT.
The final shedding of blood by the unblemished Lamb of God,
Jesus Christ, paid for all sins. The result is a future life with God
after repentance and acceptance of Jesus’ blood as payment for the
sin of murder and subsequent forgiveness. The life time
commitment is the personal part, and sharing with others is
reassurance and joy.
My email is coehling@sbcglobal.net and the website is
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www.michigandersforlife.com, my telephone is 1-269-
468-7110, 6314f, and I can be contacted at 330 E. Center St.,
Coloma MI 49038. I will provide Luther’s Small Catechism. It
contains the doctrinal basics in Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
form focusing on Bible passage answers. Acceptance and belief is
up to the individual’s personal commitment to Jehovah. I can try to
connect individuals to other Christian women. You are not alone.
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